On Friendship and Indiscretion for Rey Smith She steps aside and watches me struggle in silence as I cowered from expressing my concern. The best I can do is talk about my own shortcomings: the impatience with hardship, the many interruptions in what almost seems like one sided conversations. Yet she already knows I am worried about his safety. He crashed his car twice in the last month and the binges lasted longer than the weekends. I will have to move. But she stands beside me silently praying I will not speak ill of my best friend.